I support breastfeeding but....then you don't support breastfeeding.
If you have a problem with breastfeeding mothers, that is your problem. It is not ok for you to shame this mom to make yourself comfortable. It is not ok for you to put yourself before a babies most basic need. Every child has the right to breastfeed whenever and wherever. If you are not comfortable with seeing this, you should probably just stay home.
I'm so sick and tired of the 'breastfeeding needs to be done modestly' bull crap. Why? Because you (general you) are uncomfortable? Offended? Because you are afraid you might 'stumble' or 'lust' please tell me how any of this is a breastfeeding mothers problem.
You do not come before a babies most basic need. Nobody can control You. Only you can only control you. Stop blaming others for your own issues. That's the root of it. We are all lacking serious boundaries. When you realize where you end and another begins, the world is a happier place. So stop blaming and shaming breastfeeding mothers because you are dealing with ________ in your own life.
Sit down and think about what it is that is really bothering you here. I can almost guarantee there is a deep rooted issue or predjustice and it will have nothing to do with a mother feeding her child, it will have everything to do with you. Take control of you, better your own life. And stop picking on breastfeeding moms and being a butter.
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